We got an implausible buy upon the residence (it was the foreclosure.) We have invested the little time as well as “sweat” in it, as well as right away you have been starting to sell it. We wish to sell it during the appraised worth so you can have the profit. My hermit unequivocally likes the residence as well as wants to buy it, though he usually wants to compensate what you paid for it…he says he doesn’t hold family should have the distinction from family. I adore my brother, though you would be giving up the distinction of about $100,000 if you sell it to him for what you paid for it, contra what you can get for it upon the market. We did buy it formulation upon creation the distinction when you resold it, as an investment. He thinks you have been being distressing about this, though I know he would not give up which kind of income for us. This has turn the really moving emanate in between us, as well as he will substantially never verbalise to me again if I sell the residence to someone else.
SHOULD I SELL MY HOUSE TO A FAMILY MEMBER AT COST?
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I’d tell him to go find a property in his own price range. You are the one who made the decision to buy that foreclosed property and invest into it. You took a chance and it paid off, so YOU reap the awards…not him. Will he sign a deal that states YOU recieve ALL proceeds above the price he purchased it for when HE sells it
your brother is being incredibly selfish, why after all the time money and effort that YOU put into it should he benefit!! Put it on the open market and get your just rewards, if he wants it that much he can pay the same as everyone else and if he never speaks to you again(which I doubt will happen) thats his loss
You brother is putting you in a terribly unfair position. My sister and I are very close and I would never ask her to throw 100,000 dollars down the drain just because she “really likes the house”. Is he destitute? About to be put out on the street? Really down and out and needing your help? It doesn’t sound like that at all. He merely wants to profit from your potential windfall. After all, when he sells the house in 10 years at a profit, do you think he’s going to write you a check?
I’d sell it to him at a fair price but not at a $100K loss.
If he won’t speak to you again because of this, that in itself is messed up. I would sell it to him at 50,000 instead of 100,000 profit. You’re going half way, so should he. Look, business is business and family matters should never mix, if it does then why not compromise. Why would you take the loss and your brother the gain. If he tuned around and sold it for a profit how would it make you feel…….. I know like you’ve been shafted. Anyway he said that “he doesn’t believe family should make a profit from family”, but that’s exactly what hes doing if he buys it from you. I say go half way, and so should he. Good luck. P.S. Don’t give in, you’ll only regret it in the future.
Have you kept a copy of the receipts for the work you’ve done on it? (I hope so – they can be deductible at tax time!) Figure out what you actually paid for the repairs etc, add that to the price you paid for the house, and then split the difference between the money you’ve actually spent and the appraised value.
For instance, if you spent $130,000 to buy the house, and you’ve put $30,000 into fixing it up, there’s a $70,000 difference between the amount you paid and the amount it’s appraised for. Half of $70K would be $35K + $30K +130K = $195K. You still get a profit, your brother gets a deal, and things should smooth out.
Mind you, that’s what *I* would do – your relationship with your brother may not be the same as mine. (Heck, for mine I’d probably just drop the profit part, because he’s been really good to me when I really needed it.) But if he has the money to pay the little bit extra for the profit, and he hasn’t done you some major favors over the years, then why should you take a loss?
Tough. Why should your brother reap the profits from your work and expense in fixing up the house? Frankly he sounds like a self-centered jerk. I know, he’s your brother. But where was he when you were doing the work on it? Was he right there sweating beside you? Even if he was, he shouldn’t get ALL the benefit, although if he has a lot of work invested too, you might give him a bit of a discount in buying the house.
He’s trying to lay a guilt trip on you. Your call whether you let him do it, but he’s very much in the wrong to ask what he’s asking.
Did he take your toys and your treats when you were a kid? What he’s trying now is just a grown-up version of that.
Your brother is being unreasonable. He’s treating the home like it’s not a business investment. Perhaps you could sell it to him for the appraised value less the normal cost of sales which is approximately 9-10% of the value of the house.
Where does this sense of entitlement come from? Did he do some incredibly generous thing for you at some point? If he sells the house, will he give you the $100,000 you would have made on the house?
Sell your house for fair market value.
Your brother is being selfish and stupid, no one in their right mind would do what he is suggesting. If he never speaks to you again, it is his loss. He doesn’t believe family should make a profit from family? I bet his opinion would change if this situation was different!
Gosh, this sort of nonsense just irks me. (Probably because I have know someone who want the same sort of treatment your brother does)
You brother is a knucklehead.
He’s playing the guilt card.
Don’t buy it.
What does his need to steal your house have to do with you?
Don’t be surprised if 6 months after you sell it to him, he will put it on the market for $100,000 more than you sold it to him.
Tell him to go find his own house.
I have a sister that is exactly the same. If the tables were turned she would tell me to “go fly a kite”
Hope this helps.
Terry S.